For Whom Do You Wear Lingerie?

Whether it's Valentine's Day or not, this question is worth asking: "for whom do you wear lingerie?" {Or, "who do you wear lingerie for" but I'm being my own grammar police.} I'm bringing it up now because this is traditionally the time of year when people dress up in...

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Investing In Yourself

Food for thought: the best investment you can make is in yourself. I used to think this was some new age woo woo garbage, or just a marketing concept to get foolish people to spend money on themselves. I used to think it was targeted at people with low self-esteem who...

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How to Set Goals and Intentions

What are your goals? What is at the top of your mountain? Need help setting and achieving your goals? I'm here to help you say hurray. But first... An admission: I am a natural goal setter and yet I still struggle with them. All the time. What can I say - we human...

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How to Lovingly Forgive Yourself

We all have misunderstandings. It happens, right? In fact, what would you do if someone came to you after having messed up, or making an error because they had a misunderstanding? Most likely, it'd be easy to forgive, or to have compassion for them for buying into a...

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How to Find the Silver Lining

People ask me regularly how I stay so positive. Trust me loves, it's not because my life is easy or only filled with Hurray. In fact, there's quite a bit of what-the-hey in my life, in my community, and in our world. There's plenty to upset me. And I used to let it...

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Ashley Says I am More Than My Numbers

Meet Ashley. I've known Ashley since college and watching her blossom as a woman alongside me has been a wonder to watch. Since our days in musical theater, I have seen her definition of "beauty" evolve. Her work as a makeup artist now is all about enhancing the inner...

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How to Network (Without Being Sleazy)

One of the things that I have heard people say over and over again (in business, when I was an actress, and even from mommy friends): "I hate to network? How can I network and not feel sleazy?" I get it. And not because I don't like to network, but because I don't...

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Bridal Underwear

Wondering what to wear underneath your dress on your wedding day? We've already covered some of the most popular bra options. Now it's time to get down to it. Or, at least down the body. Here's the scoop on which underwear to wear on your wedding day! Whether you've...

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The Pros & Cons of Wearing Bodysuits

It's that time again: Pros & Cons! I often get bummed by articles that write headlines such as, "Why ____ is the BEST!" or "The Best Thing EVER For EVERYONE". I don't think things are so black and white. Even if I like something, there are generally also some...

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Suzette says I am More Than My Numbers

Meet Suzette. Suzette and I are "primas". What that means, in Spanish, is cousins. But we didn't meet each other until we were both adults. You see, our parents are actually first cousins and in adult years lived far from each other. Suzette's last name, and my maiden...

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How to Say Hurray for Lingerie as a Person of Trans* Experience

In April of 2017 I made a big deliberate choice. It was moments before the taping of my appearance on The Rachael Ray show, and in front of Rachael, a live audience, and 2 million+ people, I said that "I have fit thousands of people for bras." Seems simple, right....

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Precious says I am More Than My Numbers

Meet Precious. I first met Precious at a women's event with Mama Gena in New York City. During this two day event, tears were cried, we were all dancing with joy, and hearts were poured out for each other to witness. It was a truly miraculous event, and the energy of...

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